The Willpower Instinct
Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V5BXuZL1HAg
Sleep intervention — sleep more
mindfulness meditation + Physical exercise
Goal: Make willpower system (prefrontal cortex) bigger and better connected
Low glycemic plant based diet is ideal
Feeling guilty actually drains willpower so instead…self-compassion message
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Mindfulness of what you are thinking and feeling
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Common humanity—everyone makes mistakes
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Encouragement over criticism
learning how to talk to yourself as a good person, encouraging, and being nice
Power of self continuity: Keep of your future self as a dear friend
-get to know your future self
-write a letter as your future self to your present self
BE OPTIMISTIC
Know how to predict your failure — then you will succeed more easily
!!!!!!Tracking your success is actually BAD!!!!!
Using Pessimism
-Believe failure can happen, optimism about
getting result is bad
-keep projections pessimistic
-Don’t set super high ideals and get annoyed with setbacks
Willpower Challenge
-torture challenge
—surfing the urge
—any craving and any emotion will eventually pass if you ride it out